Girls? Here's some info about them.

July 29, 2004


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This information was posted by caraCaroline (her nick in the friendster. I don't know her real name). She's my chatmate and also a friend I guess.

Girls today are so unpredictable, it is good for us guys to have some facts about them and this fact I posted in here is a big help to the people out there who had a difficulty in courting someone. So here is it.

1.) When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.

2.) When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it is best to give her some time to cool down before giving her a heartfelt apology.

3.) A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to "get over him" after the relationship is over.)

4.) If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.

- I have a bad feeling about this.

5.) When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she melts.

6.) A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually is not sure how to react to them.

7.) When a particular guy flirts with a girl a lot, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stares 'okie?

- I think it's true. I've done this many times

8.) If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.

9.) If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you still want to be friends, talk to her.

10.) Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).

11.) Never tell a girl that she is useless in any way.

12.) Being too serious can turn a girl off.

13.) When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start calling

her friends to spread the news.

14.) A smile means a lot to a girl.

15.) If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.

16.) If a girl says she can't go out with you because she has to study, leave her alone.

17.) But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.

18.) Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

19.) Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that, she is beautiful.

20.) After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder why she never noticed him before.

21.) If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read romance stories.

22.) When class pictures come out, a girl would first look at the girl next to her crush before actually looking at herself.

23.) A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory, but the guy she loves will always stay in her heart.

24.) Girls love to have fun!

25.) A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

26.) A girl's best friend usually knows best what she is feeling and going through.

27.) Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.

28.) Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.

29.) Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them..

If you wish to know caraCaroline here's her email caroline_balz@yahoo.com.

A message for me!

July 25, 2004

Hello there my friends! Here we go again, writing some stupid, or let's just say, some unusual article in this space, but now, my mind has ran out of space and I cannot save many of my ideas that happened to pass by in my thought yesterday (in other words I'm stupid), so just let me publish this message from my Auntie En-en for me. Well, not just for me really, it's for her friends out there, andI think I'm in the circle. So I guess I have also the right to blog the content of her message. Here it is;

Thoughts from the Glass Jar: Save yourself from the past dot com.

Yesterday is past.

Today is a gift.

Tomorrow is a mystery, but I'm sure God will guide me. : )

Now these three remain: Faith, Hope and Love. But the greatest of these is Love.-1st Corinthians 13:13

Hope never quits, faith never stops, trusting and love never fails!( I had this one posted in my study tableback in my undergrad days.: )

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.-Aristotle

(here is this one i love. this is what one can say to a friend when he/she feels true to himself when he's/she's with him/her:"I like me best when I'm with you...."(ooow, angal pa????, hehe)

I miss you when I'm sad. I miss you when I'm lonely. But most of all, I miss you when i'm happy.

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.-Barbara De Angelis

Hello everyone,

Today is fiesta celebration in Dapitan City in honor of Saint James the Greater. I'm not there, I miss Dapitan....

Anyway, I have some news from my part of the world. I was kind of excited because we will have our SanggumayAcquaintance Slumber Party this Tuesday, July 27 at 9pm. We (from Wing D) will dance the Sunod Sa Galaw (that ad sa Rejoice-ngek, funny jud! hehehe).We decided we will make it funny so as not to bore the audience (ourfellow dormmates). It was required that it will be the new residents to perform, so we have no choice. Anyway, I enjoyed the practice, but I just wondered what happens in the night of the presentation, hehehe. : )

Oh, I have this important thing to share: For the past months (April-early days in July) I have been sort of a "lost child". I felt those heartaches that seemed to break me into pieces. I was hypersensitive, especially on those self-help and inspirational books, devouring everything I could hold on to just to have that strength again out of my unregenerate love.

But by now, I am so thankful because I realized that maybe the reason why it was hard for me during those times that I have problems was because I tend to forget the most important person who loves me-the dearest friend who paid the price of His life just not to let us struggle alone.I was too absorbed and too confident of myself that I forgot the only person who walks patiently with me along those bumpy roads-who silently waits for me to call Him. I realized now why I haven't felt the purity of love I've searched all mylife because I've stubbornly look for it from others He knew are not meant for me. I prayed but i forgot that I have to humbly submit myself to His own Will for He knows what is best for me. I forgot that I have to first completely surrender myself to Him so that I will be complete enough to share my wholeself to the man who truly loves me and one who has done the same thing of himself and to the Lord too. I was hurt because I didn't look for that contentment and peace in the arms of my Father-Jesus Christ. I forgot everything about my covenant with Him. And now I am happy that His love made me search for him and leads me back to Him. Gradually, I shall have that purity of love that hopefully, I could share to the man that truly deserves me and whom I deserve to in Christ's will. : )

I am so grateful. I realized now that everything in my life is a blessing. I've learned lessons, and I'm confident to go on with Christ who guides me. Probably God gives us problems to remind us that He is there. He gives us sickness to tell us not to be forgetful of His healing grace.

All of these I realized when we have a Faith Formation with Sister Sol ( a nun-chaplain for all lady dormitories in UP-Diliman. This will be every Wednesday at 7:30 pm in Sanggumay Lobby). It was like a retreat, a soul searching-like what I have experienced back in my high school days before our graduation-we have are treat to search for our own path and dreams. That first group sharing was a time when we opened our selvesto our expectations, fears, realizations and dreams in life, and lost hopes. I like it because the sharing is not insipid at all, and we have a joker dormmates and we laughed and shared humor and jokes and Sister Solis kind and trustworhty and a good listener. : ) I look forward to more of our meetings and hopefully, I would be able to walk my way of life in the light of my faith with Jesus. : )

Ok, as for my dorm life, oh, by the way, Sanggumay is a name of an Orchid, but most students(undergrad and grad ones) call Sanggumay Sanggurang-arrrrggg!!! Sanggurang is tagalog for old-which means oldmaids, spinsters for us Sanggumay residents, uh uh! : (: ) That's how they call the residents, probably because most don't have boyfriends and quite choosy. Probably most men were just intimidated because women residents in Sanggumay are known around the UP Diliman campus to be goal-oriented, has high standards and a mind that scare the wits out of men! (hey, my male friend says that, hehehe) : ) (was that a compliment or something else???? : ) Anyway, in fairness, Sanggumay dorm the epitome of Filipina persistent and patient graduate students who strive hard just to get that education they dreamed of. (hey,it's not easy to apply at Sanggumay for residence-you have to strictly follow the rules and they have criterias for accepting residents which one has to compromise and understand and obey. That's why I wanted very badly to be accepted in Sanggumay. There is another women graduate dorm, Ipil, but it is co-ed. I've stayed at Ipil back in April as a transient when I took up the MAPS entrance exam. : )

Opps! Before I go, I have these new tastes that brainwashed my discriminating palate I have discovered now that I am here in UP. The first one is the Bicol Express. I usually eat at Rodics and Coop. At Rodicsit's Bicol Express that I really ordered, hmmn... with rice of course! Then when at the Coop, I have Sinigang- I like it! Then also I eat Bagusilog(Bagus and itlog). As for Bicol Express, I have promised myself to try to cook it when i will have my vacation at home-the cooked soft pork, coconut milk with chili and spices-just think about that savory curry and that's it! I just love hot and spicy food! And when I eat, I have leche flan for my dessert and that's a; ready heaven for me! : )

Lastly, I've watched Dharma and Greg last Saturday on tv at RPN. i remember Will and Grace...I love the plot, the loving couple and the jokes..hehehe. I'm sure I'll gonna watch it again. : )

Got to go, hello to Kristina and Marius-Best Wishes and Congratulations! Lithuania, I will visit your country someday. : ) Thank you for all those comforting emails.Thank you so much! Hey, I still have to finish my reading of a book tonight for my book review.I hope to encode it tomorrow to be passed on Tuesday. Gravaay! I don't feel like writing it now.....Need to relax a little... ; )

Take care and God bless!

Sincerely,

Enin ; )

That's it! I hope you had a nice reading.

A little info about my Aunt. She is a person of high intellect, self-confidence, creativeness, friendliness and beauty.

Have a nice reading! Bye!

A Sort Of...

July 18, 2004

It took me a day to think what am I going to write here. I am too busy and my mind is working on the other thing. We've been developing a system for our company. Too many things to do, so little time.

From the quite place of Ilaya, where I came from, I arrived here in the busy city of Cebu. I worked as a computer programmer before at Dapitan City Sara Lee Outlet. The business was manage by a friend of mine (I did know somehow that we are related to each other). Then on the early days of March 2004, while I was repairing a computer at the Prosecutor's Office at Dapitan, a close friend of mine, working at Cebu, called me and told me to apply to the company where he worked. So that's it! After a few days of waiting I was being called for an interview. I was very lucky on that day that the other company I previously applied also called for an interview. A good luck indeed, but it made so confuse about what to choose and I have to think hard how to be able to decide right. And my time is running out.

After a day of thinking, I decided to accept the offer of my friend, to worked with him. A week later, I was being trained at Bais. When I heard about the place I don't have any idea about it, how far it is and what kind of people awaits me. And then that's it, I travel blindly. I'm not afraid, I have so much money to spare.

I was trained in Bais City for almost three months (unusually long time for a trainee like me). Bais is just a small city with a large plantation of sugarcane on it's outskirt. With so few business establishment I can compare it to my place, Dapitan.

After a long waiting, I was being assigned with my friend in the IT Department. We travel to Bayawan. Nearly four hours from Bais and two from Dumaguete. I was bringing two bagful of my things so I felt so tired when we arrived at Bayawan. As what I observed, Bayawan is bigger and busier than Bais. And I also met some lovely ladies in that city. We stay there for three days, then we began our journey to Cebu.

So that's it! Well I guess I have to stop here, my mind is completely blank. See you in my next nonsense article!

Bye!

My Poetry

July 17, 2004

Hello everybody!

I submitted a poem at Poetry.com, but sad to say my poem exceeded to the line they allowed. What did I do? I deleted the two paragraphs of the poem.

Now, let me publish the full composition of it in here. It was entitled "I Will Never Say Goodbye"

I Will Never Say Goodbye

I will never say goodbye like nearing to the end of time

I'm not going to say farewell for I'm just riding with my destiny's rhyme

I may have to leave and walk away but not eternally

And it was just a fact of life a common thing to see

For in this world we come and go to follow the path of our own

Too many roads to take a journey to an every city to an every town

The quest may take us a lifetime or less, we just don't know

We have to pray for our own success or just go blindly with the flow

And if I have to wave my hand to the people I left behind

It's not goodbye to you I swear for I hate to utter this line

And if I have to say a word to enscribe in your memory

It might be a big, big thanks for the kindness you had given me

And somewhere, and somehow on the every space of our world

We might cross and meet again somewhere down the road

Just look at my eyes and you will see the fondness I wish to share

Hold my hand and see my smile and you will know how I care.

At last, I feel better. I wish that someday they will know that the composition I submitted is lacking.

Now for the other topic, I recently launched my new website (still under development). If you wish to visit it, just click this link www.digifreak.tk.

I have to say goodbye. Thank your for visiting this blog. Goodbye!